Whenever I am doom-scrolling on Instagram, I see the Waiting To Exhale meme of Savannah’s mom saying “He’s a good man Savannah” and I wonder why women would use this meme to describe their significant others. Did we watch the same movie? There is no way that folks are referring to Kenneth, the man Savannah was having an affair with, as a “good” man.

I am several days behind on this self-imposed writing challenge and have a very valid reason why. Okay, maybe it is not as valid as one would accept. Honestly, I constantly fall down the YouTube rabbit hole. Yes, almost every single night since the first week of February…